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Is Your Man Crap In Bed? 
It’s sad but true, some men’s love making skill just aren’t up to much. There are numerous reasons of why your lover might not be satisfying you in the way that you would like; but we are not going to be discussing that here! This article is going to look at the 'hows' and the 'should I's' of tell your man that he’s crap in bed.
Firstly.... Your man is crap in bed. Do you.... A) Ditch him - Up grade to a man who makes you scream all night? B) Confront him - Tell him he’s crap in bed and make him deal with it and improve? C) Train him up - White lie and say you have developed a dominant fetish and you want him to be your slave and do everything you say? A tricky one isn't it? I went to my faithful friend Jeeves to ask his advice. 'What do I do if my man is crap in bed?' Jeeves response was to send me to http://www.killermovies.com/forums/f61/t23255.html I think Jeeves is a sensitive kind of guy, and he was showing empathy towards my hypothetical 'crap in bed man' either that or he was teaching me to count my blessings because, on the page he sent me to was a large bold heading I crap the bed in the mornings Now we know why Jeeves isn't a sex therapist! 
I needed expert advice and I turned to Dr John Gray, author of 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' - A practical guide for improving communication and getting what you want in your relationship. I was sure Dr Gray would appreciate the importance of great sex.
Dr Gray explains 'Martians have a win/lose philosophy - I want to win and i don't care if you lose' This would explain some of the problems and attitudes of those men who do lack the wow factor in the bedroom - You have to admit, some men do think that sex is a race; they want to win and roll over and go to sleep. Dr Gray continues - Most of these Martian attitudes have a place in life, but this win/lose attitude becomes harmful in our adult relationships. If I seek to fulfil my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win. That sounds great; however, if my man is going to be amazing in bed he has to appreciate that I have to win more often than he does! So it seams if my man is crap in bed I have to confront him so that we can discuss how we both win in the bedroom. How do you do this? Do you just blurt out over morning coffee – here’s your clean work shirt Hunny, oh and by the way your just not hitting the mark in the bedroom department? 
'You never tell a guy he's no good in bed' says Joan Lloyd author of all these books you see flashing before you (click on them to find out more detail on buying these books). She shared her secrets for lovers with me. You have to phrase your comments in positive terms. Find something he's good at - maybe it's kissing or giving foot rubs - then encourage that. "I love it when you..." If you accentuate the positive that will go a long way. Then make some suggestions yourself. "You know, I've always wanted to... How about you?" I've written several books on how to improve your sex life and most of those contain lots of hints on what to do and how to say things. Joan Lloyd What a lovely lady; I bet she doesn't have lousy sex life! Maybe she does with all this book writing, when does she have time to get fruity!?? So it appears that we could conclude from this that if you man is crap in bed that you subtly guide him in the right direction so that you both get what you want out of your fun and frolics. 
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The recipe for space cakes will follow at the end of the article! To be honest this approach seems the easier route with the added bonus of if the weed doesn't have the desired effect and he's still crap; you will have a good giggle about it! And so I contemplate on the topic with these pearls of wisdom offered by learned people and what I can't get away from is the question - How do you end up with a bloke who’s crap in bed???? There is something installed in my brain after one of life’s nasty experiences that will not allow me to fall head over heals with a man who can't pleasure me. Sorry - I'm an A) Dump him kinda girl!! Space Cakes 
1) Get a cake mix from the shop
2) Follow the instructions on the packet to the letter after adding crumbled up pot to the dry ingredience. 3) Whilst they're cooking slip into something sexy! |
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